Who am I? |
There is no fine line to describe an individuals identity. There are so many different factors that come into play when we think about who we are, or who others think we are. Culture is just one of the defining factors of our individual identity. Although, culture is a big umbrella over our identity that is also made up of so many different aspects. An individuals culture determines how they communicate and interact with other people. There are three different perspectives on identity and communication: Social Science, Interpretive, and Critical ( Martin and Nakayama, 2013). The social perspective is the belief that an individuals identity is created by self by relating to different groups of people. It emphasizes a collectivist notion of self (Min Sun Kim, 2002). Collectivists value group goals more so than individual goals. They have a strong sense of familial identity which allows for people to be emotionally connected with one another and also allows for them to have a sense of reliance on another person. The other person would also be benefiting from the reliance. It might best be considered an "alliance" between 2 or more people. Another aspect that the social perspective emphasizes is spiritual identity that is learned through experiences with people and the belief of higher meanings in life. The interpretive perspective is an identify formed through the social interactions with others. By interacting with others and getting a sense of their identity, we can reinforce or create our own identity. Sometimes we take simple attributes of someone else's identity and make it a part of our own without even realizing it. The last perspective is the critical perspective. This perspective calls on past events to explain different identities. Such as what has happened in the past in terms of history, economics, politics, and discourse. People can be placed in a specific identity just by communicating their past to other people.
Besides culture there are many other aspects that make up our identity, such as: social, gender, sexual, age, racial, ethnic, religious, class, national, and regional just to name a few. Each one of these identity categories has its own unique make-up, just like each one of us. There are no set guidelines or regulations within each category. Although a persons culture might have an effect on how they view each category. Being female for example is viewed as power in some cultures, whereas in others being female is in viewed as inferior. Sometimes it is hard to completely understand different cultures. That is why intercultural communication can also be hard to understand, but yet it is so important in our world today. Everyone doesn't necessarily need to know all the aspects of someones culture to be able to effectively communicate with them, they just need to be aware of differences in each of the identity categories. I think that having an open mind and willingness to listen are also important aspects of intercultural communication.
References
Martin, J.N, and Nakayama, T.K. (2013). Intercultural Communication In Contexts (6th ed.) New York, NY: McGraw Hill
Memmott, M (2013, September 3). 2 Million Syrians are Now Refugees and More 'On the Way'. Retrieved from http://www.npr.org/blogs/thetwo-way/2013/09/03/218471534/2-million-syrians-are-now-refugees-and-more-are-on-the-way?utm_source=NPR&utm_medium=facebook&utm_campaign=20130903
Fisher, M. (2013). 9 Questions About Syria you were too Embarrassed to Ask. The Washington Post. Retrieved from http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/worldviews/wp/2013/08/29/9-questions-about-syria-you-were-too-embarrassed-to-ask/
Thanks for your post, Maggie. You pointed out a crucial thing to remember when interacting with overall culturally different people: remember that they can share similar identities (such as national or regional) with oneself. This remembrance (and valuing of shared identity) could lead to conflict resolution or avoidance. I'm sad that such is not possible in Syria.
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